This is a 'fly on the wall view' of a conversation between my daughter Karla and I, while her dad sat reading the paper at the table. She had just had a row with her brother Luke (one of many that day !!). Karla is 5 and her brother Luke is 8. Karla: "Mammy, Luke is REALLY annoying me, -  He said that I couldn't do (blahh!!  talking to fast for me to follow)........ and I said... and then he said....." she was to annoyed to remember what either of them had said " and .. and...and  I... Well I..... Oh Mammy it doesn't matter what I said  'cos the thing is that I am SO-O-O right!! and he is S-O-O WRONG!!" She's standing there in front of me, fists ...